hot and cold treatment, long disappearing acts and the reappearances over and over again,etc). Everything was great in the beginning, almost too good to be true (I should have noticed the red flags then!). We have two children together and he is a Deputy, his days with the girls are drop ins. Rod thanks for your input. He sent a long message about how he met this beautiful woman from New York and so on and that he lost interest in me and maybe we could be friends but probably not, he went on to blame everything on me as usual and that I forced him to seek . when he sees me strong wants me back just to see if he can. Two months later, in May, he wrote a lovely email that he misses me blah blah. I mean thousands of dollars. There is also pure NPD. Congrats on ur joirney to recovery, Your email address will not be published. -Controlling That being said, I struggle with the feelings about his Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde routine. After that an tekst said peace and have a nice life. Finally, am I bringing hoovered? They either realized they were dating a narcissist and got out of the relationship as fast as their legs could carry them and didnt look back. Thanks for sharing. Specifically, Narcs cannot have intimate bonds of friendship. Happy with girlfriend, but thinks you guys should be friends Translation: Somethings not on the up and up and/or he has discovered some way that getting back in touch with you will benefit him. As a Christian, I dont want to have sex until I am married but I also wouldnt move in with someone either. But hes become a different person now that I know about his affair. Yet so ready to embrace a new lease on life . Get your ex back with Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup . And, as the mother of two children, my pain doesnt end because now they have to see him by law and I know he is slowly doing his damage to them and they will end up in therapy like all of his other kids. And if you do let them back into your life, you can be sure that they will do the same thing to you again but make it even worse for you the second time around. Yes, this recovery is certainly tough. I wouldnt say he destroyed my faith in love, but he definitely shook it and Im even a more guarded gay man now (as if so many of us arent guarded and insecure enough). Hi Kim, thanks for your input. So after all of that I am now convinced they work with smokimg mirrorswhen you stop playing their game, they lose all the magic. Stay strong. Where he used to be able to (really well) fake his love etc. I remain perpetually on the fence about him! Lose the Loser! Then she blocks me, so I cant say anything. Jamie, if I were in your shoes, I would file a restraining order, citing the information you shared here. That hit home! I saw a photo of her brother online and realised it wasnt the guy in the car. Even at sixty five she turned heads. So from this point onvten years ago til now had has been Im control. He has tried everything to stop my return. He continued to have close female friends after we got engaged. This man Ive known since I was 13, so 16 years now. This is when she got her hooks in me. Youll never have any peace, youll be in a constant state of limbo, and the narcissist will never allow you to move on. So, when the cops called they said unfortunately they couldnt charge him because he now is alleging I theeatened too. As well, I needed money and my ex boyfriend asked his friend to sell My old car 7 weeks ago but nothing is happeningand I have not seen my car back nor moneywhat are my options? My poor friend just sat there with a glazed look; she barely got a word in. With every transaction, theyll claim they only want to see you happy. Why all those lies in the shop?. Am happy and dance and sing now. I struggle with the fact that years later he tried to deny our relationship (his words and actions too). What I know is that narcissism really exists on a spectrum, although its easier and useful to think of narcissism as categories of individuals. Perhaps the narcissist will come back down the road with an apology for bad behavior or promises to answer outstanding questionsthe closure we never got. Thank you for sharing your experiences. He probably is out having revenge fun now. I did not even hound her about it, and actually was pretty cool about the whole thing. So, as far as theyre concerned, the more supply they get, the better the relationship. My oldest being 9 at the time would hug him and say she loved him and would get a quick pat of disgust with no love returned. They will spend that time obsessing over what they did wrong and how they can become the perfect lover when the narcissist returns. MY choice to be a Christian and follow a moral path is what polices me to do rightEVEN when I know someone would let me get away with doing wrong. Does anyone have any tips on getting over a narcissistic ex? I wish you strenght and all the best for you and your son. The reason I feel he is classic Narc is the grandiosity, fear of intimacy, lack of empathy, and behaviors he exhibited like gaslighting, triangulating, crazymaking. He went out of his way to help me jumpstart my career, even creating a website for me, he was always loving and encouraging..doing small things, like buying me my favorite treats from the store so that they would be waiting for me when I came over. I told to myself by Reading all those storys here i will never let him get to me like that and now he haves his way again. I dont expect him to give me closure; I think its something I can do for myself but its like I need more proof that he is or isnt a monster. I was devastated I couldnt believe what was happening to me. He left his wife in May and by June he was already having the affair ( which im assuming he pursued the other woman months before and when she finally agreed, he left his x wife). These types of guys care about one thing and one thing only and that's themselves. There has been no evidence of slander or of him being in another relationship, however, people whi I do not know are quite freely infirming me if this free information after the fact of confirmation of return. I have a question. I dont spend too much time thinking about the past anymore. Answer (1 of 23): If your ex is a narcissist, she believes that you and all of her victims are possessions that she can pick an use and hurt anytime she wants. Someone took away his lollipop and there is hell to pay. He started popping pain pills right after the third year. I sent my best wishes and he took that as a reason to go one step further. Let your integrity speak for itself! Since you are connected to him if ways you get out of (children) I think you have to educate yourself and learn to let the things he does roll off ur back. I miss that person. I keep seeking closure or caring that I know will never come. Never heard from him again. [] N will come back again and againafter initiating their silent treatment until you just cut them off. I have a problem and I need help and Im willing to go through all the steps to make myself better..(probably unlikely but what if.. since shes not doing well financially and she might be hitting rock bottom pretty soon..if she hasnt alreadyidk..) She also smokes and takes valiums / adderrall and stuff like that which also contributes to her instability.plus some drinking.. Then the telephone bill came in for the phone I gave him, here I saw he was communicating with 3 different women plus me. I kept waiting for him to get it and come running back with a sincere apology. Thank you for sharing your experience, Josi. Her house. I have PTSD from being in a relationship with a narc, which has been clinically diagnosed but reading these articles can sometimes confuse the hell out of me. Now everything is a lot clearer to me. They will never let you go. Such a saint of a man, right? Domestic violence unit contacted me the next day and said that they believed me and told me to get an emergency protection order and he feels my ex is more passive aggressive and gets off on reactions, that he would manipulate from the outside. She came back three months later and I was idealized again for a little over a month. I also have a special needs child and my ex is telling her that i am an alcoholic which of course is not true, but see similarities, so she thinks she needs to protect him because she is fighting her demons and he has triangulated her, the perfect target, she can try attack me which comes from her issues and he gets off on that. So many unknowns I could reach out and ask, but Id never trust a word from his mouth as genuine. And every time I think to myself a real narcissist would never apologizewould never admit his frailty. But once I pick him upremind him of his valuetell him I believe in him and see his strengthits only a matter of days or weeks before he finds a reason to fight and the silent treatment begins. The irony! Now all of a sudden, its not mine. Actually THE NEXT DAY (imagine what he felt), and the community too. I hope you are doing well and one day I can truly go no contact. Theres a reason here that may not be obvious, but its not due to a sudden change of heart. Narcs cant hide their true selves for long. So, having read on all these since 2009 so far, I concluded, THIS IS MY VERY SUBJECTIVE CONCLUSION, I WOULDNT TELL ANYONE TO TAKE THIS AT THE FACE VALUE.. all Cluster B disorders COME WITH NPD ANYWAY. Thanks for sharing . I didnt until I met mine. I caught him once again lying about a girl and still does. And time is passing. I find it particularly appropriate to the field of psychology, cluster B, in specifically (Ns, Psych, etc.). I am seeing thats it really isnt me. However, they will use these weaknesses against you if they need to. But i acting that ii was very strong and have gained lots of friends. So, Im fairly certain hes done with me. I must have had sucker written on my forehead. No do not accept him back. I mean, why the hateraid? Once they know you are on to them, they will do everything possible to shut you up. I think of them as masters of the game. Ellen, Anon is absolutely correct. Good Luck. The new supply doesnt know the narcissists agenda and will go along with whatever the narcissist asks of them. Now, he is not used to not having control. She cant hold down a job event though she is amazing at what she does and always gets great pay but has never once saved any. This is who he is and this is what I get kind of thing. Ultimately, he divorced me saying that he could not be with anyone who saw him as his abuser. They may even have tried to use manipulative techniques to keep us in the relationship, such as threatening to hurt themselves or to hurt us. I found that telling mine that I had figured out he was a Narc/Sociopath scared him off. -An impossible repair as the disagreement gets deeper That seemed to work like a charm. I kept secretly hoping she would hoover me and we'd go back to Low Contact, improve the friendship. Basically, she was a runner. She ran away from all her problems and responsibilities. Im wondering if now the ex might start trying to contact me for real to try to rope me back in; Ive just started getting myself together and although i still wake up every morning with panic attacks, I just want my life back before i met ths fake person. You know the relationship was destructive and unhealthy, even though you may want to get back together. Perhaps we were the ones to try to end it and attempted to explain why. You can put a stop to that by ceasing engagement. There are tons of things that I want to tell you and show you, things I want your opinion on and there is every single night that I go to sleep without you to hold against me. Well each one my ex has viewed. Sometimes I feel really light when I remember I am free from all the bullshit. Zero self-reflection nor desire to better herself. I am trying to find a job and use the bus with my child for transportationBut he called me saying that he does not understand why I need distance and felt like I used him (i felt also used as his promises for me finding a reliable job and be free fell through)he said that I should make it easy on myself and live with him or stay with my child in his guest house (! They get tired of it and i lost my best friend because of this. When I say Im in love with you, I love not being alone. I mourn the person he could have been if his life started over in a different family. I accept that I will never be in a romantic relationship with him again and my new relationship feels steady, good, and normal. We separated for 7 months and he befriended a woman I later found out he was spending tiime with her at her home. Wow, the reality and truism of this sucks but thats what happens when you fall for a Narc. ! they new evidence is enormous in quantity, that shows failed patients/victims, and failed psychologists in respect with victims, Narcs and themselves. Even though he struck back with a vengeance, I think I outsmarted him and that makes me feel great. On one of the sites the question had been if psycho women bring less ego into relationship, then psycho men, I wrote no and explained why. It was like I dropped off the face of the earth. I finish my call then I text himyes?. But I know now. I cant believe this is my life ! This can happen until the passage of time breaks the chemical bond to them. He proves his disorder with most of what he tells me. There was never any financial links/obligations between us. Hurting you makes her feel better. This man left our family in shambles I dont even want to look at him let alone joke around with him. I think disordered women make far better/effective liars then men in general, so the pain can be even worse for a male victim. In this case, since youre saying you dont want to be friends anymore, hell remind you that hes got something on you that could destroy you. Dont even say yes if they ask you something. The lies and the illusions never stop. Many things keep us bound to narcissists far longer than they should. []. Matt, you need to block her on FB. A lot of online communities are throwing around the term narcissist but they dont really make an effort to separate it into its appropriate clinical category. So how do you explain to the ones that you love that they the have no future because of a mental disorder starting grade one that was not recognised until a year ago? ( my friends should say now.. yeah right you Always say this) So with his proud. Narcissists, however, in theory, keep everyone with whom they have ever interacted in a web of potential sources of narcissistic supply. Its only for a few months, a few, LONG months of sheer hell! You capture so well what is going on in a narcissists mind. But i dont want to rush in to an other relationship still mourning him. If we argue its ok if we do it for a little bit to vent or whatnotsure.. They wont ever leave if we do. I did not even ask her about the money. Thanks Kim for this wonderful blog. I guess it just takes a lot of time to heal. Since you mentioned that they usually come back eventually after using the silent treatment, do you think she will come back around? Im so scared for her! When theyre with a group of friends, the narcissists might say something like, wow, I cant believe how relaxed I feel now that me and Terri are not together. The look in his eyes I will never forget, they were dark piercing and nothing no emotion. I wish there were more male posters, because women with narcissistic traits are just as prevalent, and often more dangerous. I moved to another state with my child as he promised me a job, in fact I was not even paid the minimum wage. She is a handbook case Histrionic. I sure did And until I met him I didnt know what a narcissist was so I had no reference. Thanks Kim, could it be because he is about to lose the family home and go bankrupt. Takes full responsibility. This so-called questionable source may be because he has lied about some stuff and its his way of trying to backtrack. She would constantly tell me how highly she speaks of me to him. I have experienced this for seven years and I truly understand. A few hours later, the second text came through: Did u get my earlier text? I didnt respond to either text. While we certainly dont deserve it, its important to understand what it is about ourselves that made us decide to let our partner get away with it. Try relaxing music. Pfffft, again masking, trying to show me he has moved on and how me asking him to leave has not affected him. I know its an addiction rather than love. Now I have these legal troubles. Love. I didnt go for very long because I couldnt afford the expense but it was helpful. LOL! In many cases, they are even harder to get over. You are doing great service work in this area and you should be proud of how many people you help and inspire every day. Grow stronger and confident. Having an ex unblock you can do a real number on your psyche; you tend to overthink, question their motives, feelings towards you, and most importantly, your feelings towards your ex. Just be silent and it will kill them. She is so orientated by money. Im working on why me, what made me his victim, how did I get here in this situation, how do I get out. He texted me as a friend. A view weeks no contact does not Make you clean. He said it was work related. And when that relation is over he would come to me. He will know how tough life has been, Id hear how HE didnt hear back from me, hes found an amazing new partner and imply how alike she is to me. Any thoughts?? Many Narcissists dont treat their exes well, especially when they refuse to come back. Please read this article. It is her way of getting back at the people who raised her. The male I spent 7-1/2 years with is obsessed with his ex-girlfriend and her brother-in-law and has been for nearly 25 years. Funny thing is I told therapist he picked tohelp us that I wanted out but was afraid. He was unable to take criticism and would devalue my feelings and input about the relationship if those feelings made him appear wrong in any way. I read your story. To do this, a Non must reach the absolute edge of sanity; the point where its either you or them where you turn away, or fall off the cliff. More pain will come to you. That is the thanks I get for caring. If someone wants to be part of it good. and the list could go on and on.. Please do not underestimate the fear and trauma that a man can cause to a woman and this is not even mentioning the physical violence from the first narc, pinning myself and my baby son to the bed by the neck. We cant hate because thats not part of our makeup. Granted, we spoke on the phone all the time, but you see what I am getting at. He met her and things scalated quickly to the point he is pretty much leaving me and our 3 year old. Started punishing me . -A slow, disappearing of self and sharing a life of meaning (this one is hard to see as it is happening) Thanks for this post it boils it down so clearly. No matter what direction or action I take, someone will get hurt. She told me the very same thing happened to her and she could not make herself forgive after this, my ex says she is full of shit, because he went to her for advice on marriage and she obviously had different intentions. Third, the lack of control over what the narcissist can do may cause us to feel insecure about our own actions. If you listen cafefully to what they say to you, they are actually telling you what they are and or what they are doing to you. (for domestic violence, of course) and then killed in another country. You have been through it. I feel like I hate her and love her at the same time. Of course I found that out much later. Narcs and Psychos dont do this. I need and love my music, my family (were not even going to get into their screwiness) I need and love them also, my friends share the same sentiment. Hi Carole. We separated in August 2012 four days after our daughters 7th birthday after him striking me so hard I thought hed broken my jaw/cheekbone. Im so confused. She actually DID seem to have a caring heart at times. Well, thats what I thought I would be. This was during the Christmas season, freezing outside and the following weekend he showed up at my door to collect our daughter to run errands with his new supply waiting in his truck in my driveway. perfect boyfriend behavior). Its no secret that narcissists are good in bed, and they know this. we first met in 2008 and our last communication was in April 2014). I have no friends lef..who would help any ways. A sad reality but true and admitting what i have become is important to me. So, after theyve broken up with you and in a new relationship, the narcissist might feel that the supply theyre getting from their current partner is not as good as the supply, they got from you. study your exes more closely. I called out his lies in front of people and came off looking crazy. Once we became a relationship I let her stay by me (big mistake), oblivious to the fact that this charming person who Im starting to love and who loves animals and loves music like me ..etcoblivious to the fact that one day I will look pretty much at the devil itselfWhen I wasnt home she searched my computer for everything and went through all my stuff.etc I did a lot for this person and bought her stuff.,..even though she didnt really do much for me.. I have no interest. I must commend you on your understanding of this personality type. He obviously couldnt stand being called out on his behavior. I know logically who he is (the therapist who we had seen together informed me the other day that my ex is actually very sociopathic and rare and this is a guy whose specialty is abusive, angry men)so I know on paper who and what he isyet WHY cant I get him OUT of my heart? My take has always been that because he needs for everything to appear okay to make himself look good then of course he wants you to smile and act nice and be friends. God forbid I have lingering doubts about him. But quicklyndenied it, and then, bam! Unfortunately, we are the ones who need to leave. He said he has changed. My question, I guess, is can my narc actually be a friend? He told me we are never ever getting back together, I said yes I know, that is why I asked you to leave. I will never see my loving daughter again from this mess, as she is studying in France. I have wasted so much time and energy, and I have dug real deep to try to understand why. Then proceeds to tell me his ideas to address the problem. I did, and that was when she came after me with reckless abandon. I am sorry if all of that seemed insensitive. Borrowing my hard earned money and then disappearing a month later without paying me back, and blocking me from social media is inexcusable and unacceptable. I have no doubt you will one day hear a similar story with this BPD girl and the new supply. His phone would be carried into the shower and restroom at all times and turned off at night. Its silly but i feel bad. You cant imagine how many of us went (or are still going) through the same hell as you This blog is one of the best I have ever found since I woke up in 2007, for reliable, thorough, and most of all not judgmental info. -Kristen. If Im so horrible then why are you curious about me? btw he too found out about their affair later, after he was deported. Thank you. We broke up 9 months ago and it has taken this long to get him out of my system to the point where I can have a normal life. How they can be so cruel to someone who cared. If not they should not be snooping Do you see what I mean? I am in the same boat. Thank you Eden, That helps me a lot. The police came and he flat out lied and omitted the part about him hitting me, only told them I hit him, and they ended up taking ME to jail for battery because at some point between me calling the police and them showing up there, HE scratched his own face and told them I did that when I hit him. He would never leave if you were worthy to him. He wont find better, but I wont be around to find out! The letter was possibly what I needed to stop this evil madness. I am so glad I found this blog! I avoid face to face as much as possible, we communicate via email and phone messages. Let them know you are in a manipulative, emotionally abusive relationship. They usually wear the mask 24/7 with new supply, which is very annoying to them. Leave him to his misery. Yeah, getting closure is tough, for sure. I want you to know that I am thinking about you and praying for you. Because the child in your heart Always excist. 3. proclamations of love Or the Terminator you cant reason with them, they feel no regret, they feel no remorse they are sick and the pieces of the puzzle will never been finished, they will destroy your very soul. I dont know how to be fair to my girls and to myself in this situation. Also, if you had ever mentioned to him that you thought he was too materialistic or too sexual then the first thing he wants to do is rub it in your face how he has changed for the new supply. Later I learned he was an x-con by doing research. Narc husband says, "no offence, but you're not the first to think of this". WOW Your story was almost identical to mine except I was going through divorce when that demon Narc targeted me. Remaining friends with your narcissistic ex-partner is something youll need to consider carefully because narcissists are complicated people. Just to demonstrate I am including a note from my ex too. To validate my investment.). 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